Sex according to Oum Mohammad

29/06/2009 / united arab emirates

Sex according to Oum Mohammad

A sexologist like no other is causing a stir in the Arab world. She may wear a niqab but Oum Mohammad has no qualms about giving her views on fellatio (entirely normal) and sodomy (absolutely no way!). Listen to what she has to say...

Contributors

Valérie Cord...

On fellatio and other sexual pleasures

The talk show was broadcast on prime time television on April 21 by the Emirates TV channel al-Aan (Now). Widad al-Luta, aka "Oum Mohammed", was there to talk about her bestselling title "Very Private". As soon as the show went online, the channel's website found itself flooded with comments. Most of the people writing in however were simply asking where they could get hold of the book and if it were possible to have it sent electronically.

Oum Mohammad is no novice to sexology and nor to the workings of Islam. She's taught in a girls' school for eight years and also works as a marriage counsellor for a court in Dubai. It's worth noting that she's just about to release another book on relationship problems...

On the dangers of masturbation

“It was what she said about masturbation that really shocked me”

Valerie Cordonnier is a sex therapist from Paris. Along with other sexologists she runs the website "espace-psy".

I was blown away by the ideas of this sexologist. And to base a book on three generalisations seemed a bit over the top to me.

On fellatio and sodomy, well, I could have heard the same from some of my Jewish or Muslim patients. It was what she said about masturbation that really shocked me. I find it a shame, and truly deplorable, that she places her advice under the guise of religious guidelines. It's pure manipulation. Her message continues to put the woman in the position of inferiority, leaving her body under the man's control and forgetting any chance of reaching equality.

She's playing with dangerous disinformation. She takes women as imbeciles, for example by telling them that their breasts will sag if they masturbate. Masturbation is a personal choice and nobody should demonise it. Lack of freedom and choice does not go well with sexual development."

Valérie Cord...

France
sexologue

Comments

I m shocked by her comments

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Mon, 06/07/2009 - 17:55.

I m shocked by her comments regarding Masturbation, i agree of course about sexsual education, this is ignorance and manipulation. This shouldn't be diffused at all. What a shame that even her interlocteur didn't stop her and let her to use the name of Allah and Islam, she needs to go back to school

Unregistered user

She tell the truth

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Fri, 03/07/2009 - 01:39.

She is telling the truth
Good advaises
Imbecile peaple didint understand what she was talking about, they just take a word and tray to relate to what they feel against islm.
But if you throw a stone in the moon shure your stone will fall just close to your nose and Moon will still shining up in the sky and every body could see it if they are not blind like somes.
God bless you "amo mohammed"

War

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Thu, 02/07/2009 - 18:02.

it is just a matter of time before the rapidly growing Muslim threat to the Western world is addressed. I guarantee that within one year there will be a nuclear firestorm in the middle east

A Headscarf-Virgin Speaks Out

Submitted by Agilis (not verified) on Thu, 02/07/2009 - 00:48.

They wrap themselves into a headscarf, profess themselves to the orthodox faith and live in a French cultural environment. The problem this Black-Virgins seem to have is that they become acquainted with men in portable-phone-shops, go study, go to parties, talk about sex, family, occupation - and they are strictly religious... Those of them living in France feel associated to the French society and fight this society at the same time. In its radical opinions their disappointment mixes over distrust of the society they are living in with strict criticism and strictly religious conceptions. Like their Christian opponents, it will be become harder for them to handle the "constrains" of liberal views on political processes.

So funny ! Religion rode by

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 21:01.

So funny !

Religion rode by a monkey brain !

I'm not muslim but this

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 12:41.

I'm not muslim but this shocks me

i think tha we should

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 13:32.

i think tha we should practice the sex as islam says; fuck evrybody-everywhere- everything... read the quran

FRANCE WAR on Burqaa

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Tue, 30/06/2009 - 17:33.

haha
it seams that france is waging a crusade on burqaa :P

anyway the stupid author of this article did not understand what the women have said :
she was talking about male masturbation you moron ;)

I don't know about the

Submitted by rana (not verified) on Tue, 30/06/2009 - 20:32.

I don't know about the author but you my friend, for sure, do not understand Arabic. She was indeed talking about the (fictional) "dangers" of masturbation for women although she did mention in the first vid that some men do maturbate in front of their wives... So do not get confused by what you're watching ;-) In any case, this is really weird and I pity women listening to her sexual advice.

Just masturbated and boy

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Tue, 30/06/2009 - 14:23.

Just masturbated and boy wasn't it great. I am a little exhausted though :)

Think again

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Tue, 30/06/2009 - 13:11.

Freedom, freedom, freedom, right word intended for purpose of null.
Whey western people think they have the absolute knowledge in everything while they live and die as any other creatures. Think again....

"You'll go blind..."

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Tue, 30/06/2009 - 10:49.

There may well be all sorts of reasons for not masturbating but damaging your eyesight is not one of them.

This women is full of misinformation.

If sex education is going to be given then make sure that the person giving it knows what they are talking about

Google it!

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Tue, 30/06/2009 - 17:40.

She tells what she hears and gossips.Real things happens far of her eyes. As soon her husband is out he is dating his male partner. All is fine untill Abu Mohammad is not soft bottom.She never searches:soft bottom emirates gay.She should.

provide some private material

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 07:37.

Yes, Google it within western countries, those who created and practicing funny things, gays, lesbian, animal masturbating and many nasty things. And u can indeed provide some private material. hahaha

"She's playing with

Submitted by Unregistered user (not verified) on Mon, 29/06/2009 - 22:04.

"She's playing with dangerous disinformation. She takes women as imbeciles, for example by telling them that their breasts will sag if they masturbate. Masturbation is a personal choice and nobody should demonise it. Lack of freedom and choice does not go well with sexual development."

Youre not supposed to say those things because thats their religion,youre supposed to be quite during the islamazation of Europe

fink london airport transfer

Submitted by fink (not verified) on Tue, 07/07/2009 - 12:01.

i don't know about the author but you my friend, for sure, do not understand Arabic. She was indeed talking about the (fictional) "dangers" of masturbation for women although she did mention in the first vid that some men do maturbate in front of their wives... So do not get confused by what you're watching ;-) In any case, this is really weird and I pity women listening to her sexual advice.